Why no one wants your help (and what to do with neu)

Last Update January 23, 2013

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It’s sad, really …

I mean, if I wasn’t the guy who’s nodping his head between the thighs, going to the egg of the crow, I would even pay …All over the school year, across campus, I see tables. The tables, manned by welfare, are still bored students representing groups and clubs of different kinds ..

What do these people want? It’s simple.

“I just want to help people.”

The first thing I always notice about the student style in the corridor or the sidewalk is not a sign. It’s not the free leader they give. They’re not stains on their shirt.It’s the fact that most of the time they sit alone, not helping anyone …

So tell me you’re part of the club. You’re a passionate member, and you’re just.

You have a big sign saying, “Ask something.”

Or “Give us your ideas for school improvement.”

Why are you sitting alone? Why can’t anyone ask a question?I’m going to get the answer in just a second …

Tell me you go to your class of history on campus. You’ve got a few things to do:

  • “On the bright side, the professor is very hot.”
  • “Why am I alone?”
  • “I need to meet people tonight.”
  • ” I wish I had a bagel right now. Pretzel is shit. “.
  • Okay, maybe it’s not exactly what you’re thinking about now (full disclosure: that’s not what I’m thinking.

    In any case, you go down the sidewalk when you see me, with my chili face and the body of the Greek god, the manning of the table. Maybe I’m staring at every student.

    Or maybe I’m asking people to come and talk to me …

    Or maybe I play.“What changes would you like to see on the ISU?”

    That’s great. He has an amazing font (Bleeding Cowboys of court), a poster with posters, and I even sang a picture of the Nansky Cat, so everyone knows I’m a cold guy, not a part of bureaucracy …

    Unfortunately … I’m alone. And you know exactly why …

    That’s because the only thing that passes through your mind when you see me and my mark is.

    And this is the end of this …

    So disappointing. It’s so embarrassing. I’m going to fall on my sword …Do you remember those things I mentioned before-everything that’s going on in your head?And yet, I’m here, I’m asking you to get your feedback out of thin air. And I’m asking you to do it while you run to class …

    That’s the same thing I said, “Hey, man, if there’s anything I can do to help you, let me know.“I mean, but I just put out the burden to figure out what I can do to you.

    Although it is pleasant, and I am sure that they really want to help instead of just waiting for the distribution, their offers are usually ignored ..

    Every student had a time, where they were.

    Let’ s go back to the thinking experiment where I’m the guy sitting at the table, and you’re the mash going to …

    Imagine if the sign read:.

    “Which of these three things about ISU Sucks the Most?”

    Oh, shit. Now I go and do it. I just threw a gauntlet. Hell, the administration is probably trying to find an excuse to send me right away. But more than that:

  • I was using a shocking headline that your brain can’t ignore …
  • I’m gonna make you look at what I’m saying is that the school hit the house …
  • I’ve been listing specific options-you don’t have to think of anything. Just choose …
  • I gave you permission to complain. Instead of leaving and standing alone about the problem, you get it.See the difference?Now, check this homo:
  • At the bottom of the survey, after three questions.

    ” If there’s anything else you think sucks, write here and.

    Same question as before (“What changes would you like to see in ISU?”) -but now it works better …

    That’s because I’m easy.This is the same technique that Neil Strauss was talking about.Instead of being a regular tool in a bar that goes and asks a girl, “How you doing?”, he was always open with an interesting hook or something.

    I’m not saying that being a player and recruiting hundreds of women is necessarily a good thing, but the technique is golden.

    You want him to be even more effective?

    Derek’s post mentions three different kinds of incentives, from Steve Levitt’s book.

  • Economic incentives.
  • Social Incentives.
  • If you want to learn more about each type of incentive,

    I’ll tell you that every one of them is effective. For college students who usually break down,

    However, another type of incentive could be more effective. Analyse your audience and find out what makes them tick …

    However, the bottom line is that you are

    And you’re doing it.

    You do it by giving them

    And finally, you ask them.In reading this, you must have knowledge and tactics. Now it is time to apply them to your own situation and understand how to attract your audience. Move it!I will lead this by putting my advice into action:

    Do you have a friend who is part of the club and is engaged in advocacy, or starts a business-but can’t seem to catch the people’s interest?

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